Now the joy of (Tova) was so great even that (she) was full; yea, (she) was swallowed up in the joy of (her) God, even to the exhausting of (her) strength; ...
Now was not this exceeding joy? Behold, this is joy which none receiveth save it be the truly penitent and humble seeker of happiness.
Please send at least this video to anyone you know or feel may be suffering. Please know that people love you and are praying for you. I know that angels are looking down at you, and cheering you on. It may seem bleak and hopeless, but as you open your heart, God will pour light into your life, and you can make it out of your dark places.
In the 1960s, a professor at Stanford University began a modest
experiment testing the willpower of four-year-old children. He placed
before them a large marshmallow and then told them they could eat it
right away or, if they waited for 15 minutes, they could have two
marshmallows.
He
then left the children alone and watched what happened behind a two-way
mirror. Some of the children ate the marshmallow immediately; some
could wait only a few minutes before giving in to temptation. Only 30
percent were able to wait.
It
was a mildly interesting experiment, and the professor moved on to
other areas of research, for, in his own words, “there are only so many
things you can do with kids trying not to eat marshmallows.” But as time
went on, he kept track of the children and began to notice an
interesting correlation: the children who could not wait struggled later
in life and had more behavioral problems, while those who waited tended
to be more positive and better motivated, have higher grades and
incomes, and have healthier relationships.
What
started as a simple experiment with children and marshmallows became a
landmark study suggesting that the ability to wait—to be patient—was a
key character trait that might predict later success in life.
Patience can be seen as the mother of all virtues. If you don't have the patience to listen, how can you be teachable? If you don't have patience, how can you develope charity or faith? If you don't have patience, how can you maintain your chastity?
Impatience can also be the mother of all vices. Impatience leads to anger, pride, and insecurity.
Pres. Monson said: Oh, precious youth, please give life a chance. Apply the virtue of patience.
Here is one of my favorite poems:
Slow Dance
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round,
or listened to rain slapping the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight,
or gazed at the sun fading into the night?
You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
Time is short, the music won't last.
Do you run through each day on the fly,
when you ask "How are you?", do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?
You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
Time is short, the music won't last.
Ever told your child, we'll do it tomorrow,
and in your haste, not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, let a friendship die,
'cause you never had time to call and say hi?
You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
Time is short, the music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere,
you miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
it's like an unopened gift thrown away.
Life isn't a race, so take it slower,
Hear the music before your song is over
